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Straight and single male.on total disability due to sleep disorder.can't sleep nights so up all night.into music,mostly 80's 90's music videos.movies,etc.no friends due to disability.people view it as welfare.not physically disabled in any way..prefer staying home watching music videos,watching movies than partying.i hang out at Diners at night with coffee i cruise with the CB Radio on and i luv doing walmart at 3am.i'ma romantic person and enjoy sharing deep conversationan as opposed to line dancing or clubbing.i'm a Christian but not egalisitic.my life isn't exciting but laid back.need a best friend or girlfriend to share with.i'ma listener and extreme patience.i am a licensed and ordained miinister but don't have a church.my life is highly more unusual than most people's..trust me.idefine best friends, as 2 people who can share their utttermost secrets and thoughts with (that others might not understand or be offended by) and carry those secrets to the grave..best friends are hard to come by,but i had one for over 20 years .it was a male friend.he passed away recently and i miss having that kind of friend.hoping to find the same kind of friend again ,but in a female this time.hope to find a friend ina prisoner as my lifestyle keeps me alone and lonely and a prisoner of sorts.people don't want to hang with me or become overly friendly because of my being unemployed due to my disability.they don't see anything physically wrong so they believe i'm unjustly collecting welfare..and i don't club or party which adds to their not wanting to hang out.i'm straight all the way around.i don't even smoke pot.i don't drink.but i do collect 80's and 90's music videos and watch all kinds of movies including horror.this is why christians don't want to hang with me..so i'm ignored and avoided by both non christian and christian people.i have not one friend and haven't had for years.acquaintances yes.,friends no.the church still governs itself by laws.it's called legalism.i don't like today's christian music( hymns and lame progressi type of sound) and they don't like my 80's and 90's music videos and movies.i'm alone most of my time except when with my parents.they're elderly.my mom is 90 and my dad is 96.

Virgo

Average

5' 7 (1.7 m)

Green

Caucasian

Single

Yes - Not At Home

No

Legs

Other

Other

Dog

No

Some College

Unemployed

Retired

tapeworm trainer

Less Than $14,999USD

Alone, With Pet(s)

All Is Calm

No

No

Quiet One

Comedic, Friendly, Observant, Shy

Computers, Internet, Movies, Music, Reading, Religion / Spirituality, Tv

Going Shopping, Playing Video Games, Relaxing, Sleeping, Staying At Home, The Movies, Tv

an in the middle of the night conversation over coffee or a meal at denny's

playing twister in the nude and drinking a gallon of water without using my hands.. both at the same time..seriously though..i know this sounds weird,but as an adult, i've never been out of town and stayed at a motel..not since i was 13 and with my parents on vacation..i'd like to do that with a good friend or girl friend.maybe out of state even..for 3 days maybe.i'd bring my tablet which is adapted for wifi..and loads of memory for my digital camerai. i know that all sounds weird but it's true.

I Don't Have Any Friends

Christian

Never

Conservative

my longer term goal is to continue to be the person i am now,but more compassionate..empathetic..patient..helpful in situations where people need spiritual ,emotional help.to be all i can be according to God's will for me,.Not what the guy in the media thinks i should be..or the minister or evangelist says i should be.my shorter term goal is to find a soulmate..someone who has liken interests that will be a part of my long term goal.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Slapstick

News, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Re-runs

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Horror, Thriller

Ambient, Country, Metal, New age, Pop, Rock, Vacuum Cleaner Noises

Ancient, Biography, Comic, Computers, Fantasy, Health, History, Horror, Humor, Mystery, News, Political, Romance, Religious, Science

Simple stuff..hanging out at denny's in the middle of the night. Walmart browsing sometime between 3 and 5am. Cruising in the car in the a.m. hours listening to the CB radio,sitting in the car, under the stars at the lake around 2am, following unusual or country-ish looking trails or roads i discover while driving.playing with my jack russell terrier,The Christmas season,Easter,4th of July Fireworks,Remeniscing about the past,Christmas lights,Scary Movies,Six Flags(theme parks in general)store parking lot carnivals,fast rides,the country and country or rural living

Empathy, Humor, Sensitivity, Thoughtfullness

a girl who's gotten past the partying stage of her life. who has no interest in the club or bar scene. who is romantic and doesn't need to be shown love via someone's money.a girl who is laid back and willing to have conversation and touched with softness as opposed to a six pack and an 'encouunter'.a girl who prefers quiet talk and romance under a starry sky as opposed to a room with hip hop playing in the background.. in fact a girl who doesn't like rap and hip hop..period.. woman who has patience..compassion..empathy..lacks arrogance.understands compromise..and wants the same in a man!!i prefer she is a christian at least to the point of being a believer.she doesn't have to attend a church 'nor do i expect her to give up stuff as most church's teach(it's legalism and they're wrong).besides a soulmate i also am interested in letter or online email exchange from anyone who wants to be friends.

Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed